Matchmaking events attract hopefuls, result for some is love’s labor’s lost
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A matchmaking party was held in Jiuxing Village of Qibao Town earlier this month, attracting more than 1,000 people. About 80 percent of participants were young women, organizers said.
Participants were required to bring identity cards, pictures and diplomas to ensure that no false information was given to would-be suitors. The party began with a round of self-introductions and then moved to relaxed games to get people to mix.
A café was set up at the venue to provide refreshments. Couples who thought they might sense a spark used the café for more intimate discussions.
Matchmaking events are popular in China because many young people are so involved in stressful careers that they don’t have time to meet people and date. As they get into their 30s, they become what are called “leftovers” in the marriage market.
“It’s not possible to get to know someone thoroughly at such an event,” said Jess Miao, one of the participants. “To be honest, I felt the girls were much better than the boys, so I didn’t find anyone that I was interested in.”
Some male participants reported that girls they found attractive turned them down.
“The girls seemed to be preoccupied with age,” said participant Dave Wang. “I was turned down by several girls because I was younger than them.”
The event was organized by Bai Wanqing, a popular TV show personality in Shanghai. She said women are often too shy at these events and in relationships in general.
“It seems like girls still believe that boys should take the initiative,” she said. “But that’s not always the case anymore. I was the one who pursued my husband when I was young, and now we are very happy together.”
It was the second time Bai organized a matchmaking party in Jiuxing. Last year’s event drew about 200 people.
“There is always a need for matchmaking, and I wanted to provide a platform for young people to meet and mix,” said Bai. “Nowadays people, especially white collar workers, are too busy working and don’t think much about their future family plans.”
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